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Stop abandoning yourself
(just to keep the peace)

Most people don’t know this about you.
You’ve got the money, the wins, the outward success… yeah.
But secretly you’re worried you’re never enough.
That your parents won’t ever really be proud of you.
That maybe you’ll never find the love of your life… maybe you’ll end up alone.
You’re in a career that might not even be yours… maybe it feels like a hamster wheel that pays well. You’re not really saying what you mean.
Not having sex the way you crave. Not inviting people to work with you or pay you well for the full fire and gifts you know you’re here to share.
You’re holding back, is what it is.
You're hiding your voice. Keeping the peace. And it’s f*cking frustrating.
Because what you really want… in this moment… is to let it all out.
To fully express all those blocked up words in your throat.
In your voice. In your creativity. In the bedroom. In your business.
You want to speak the way you want to speak.
Move the way you want to move.
Create, serve, lead, love… exactly as you are underneath these thin masks you may be wearing.
Your fear?
Is that you’ll keep living a life that’s not quite yours…
Unexpressed. Numb. Disconnected from your own fire, from the wild dance of your inner masculine and sensual feminine… from the orgasmic hum of life.
And if you’re disconnected from that… how can you ever really connect with someone else, much less your own arms-wide-open, fearless satisfaction?
But what you’re really chasing… your deepest desire…
…is to feel so fully expressed and alive and turned on by your own damn life that deals and people and freaking animals just come over to you, and you have to turn them away.
You’re magnetic.
Boundaries and desires roll off your tongue.
You allow what you want in love, in business, with friends to just come to you because you’re so in love with your own energy, so free of defensiveness and insecurity, that the world can’t help but respond.
It can be this easy.
If this hits, reply to this email with “flow god.”
I’ll send over a short Google doc with my two current 1:1 offers.
You’ll see exactly how we can drop the guilt, burn the mask, and design a way of life that finally feels like yours.