why you're not feeling fulfilled

Hey my friend,

Let me say it straight:
You're not fully fulfilled because you're not living up to your potential.

I hated hearing that in my 20s, but at 34, I know it’s the truth.

Take a moment—are you truly satisfied with your life, your work, who you’re being?
Don’t rush the answer. Feel into it.

It’s not sexy to admit we're not where we want to be.

But ironically, that’s where the magic happens.

That’s where you get liberated to open up to all the fresh possibilities your heart wants to explore.

(I talk about it more here in this video I made this morning).

There’s a balance between contentment and ambition. But sometimes, we hide behind “I’m content” to avoid facing deeper desires.

Desires like:

• A deeply fulfilling relationship that turns you on.

• 3-5x more income to help the people you love.

• That health and vitality that makes you feel unstoppable.

This is The Gap.

The Gap is uncomfortable—it triggers our ego. It’s the difference between where you are and where you could be if you stepped fully into your power, your healthy anger (that’s right), and your real desires.

I’ve been there.

I went from being an unfulfilled, bored prep school teacher in a suit, supervising kids on a soccer field, to a digital nomad making $7k+ a month as a personal coach.

Now, I wake up each day with God at the center of my life, feeling amazing, deeply connected to beautiful friends and clients around the world.

But none of this would have been possible without confronting the Gap and taking action.

Are you holding back? Keeping quiet? Avoiding the big moves that could level up your life?

Another day slips by, and your dream life feels further away.

But it’s not a mystery.

The people living their dreams are going after the Gap unapologetically.
They don’t stop. They relentlessly close the gap between their vision and their reality.

Your dream life exists in your mind. No one else knows it. That’s both the blessing and the curse.

I only feel fulfilled when I’m taking daily action to close my own Gap. That’s how I got here.

You’re not happy because you’re not achieving your true destiny.
Do you feel that? That nagging feeling?

It’s there to push you into action, to create something meaningful that serves others.

It’s simple, but it takes deep self-reflection and clarity. That’s what I do with my clients—help them close the Gap.

For me, it’s a flow state of passion. 12-hour workdays feel like nothing b/c I’m aligned with my purpose.

Here’s what helped me get here:

• I got clear on what I want—where I want to live, who I want to be around, and how I want to serve.

• I asked myself, “Why do I want this?” Why settle for average when I could go for extraordinary?

• I tested things—rebranding, creating new offers, reading, reaching out, challenging my own limiting beliefs.

Now, I want you to ask: What would it take for you to close your Gap?

You're here to be happy, but real happiness comes when you push yourself to your next level and let go of what no longer serves you.

And the truth is I want us both to live so fully that we leave it all on the table in our one, incredible life.

I made a video this morning that I think can help you get there faster.

You can watch it here.

Enjoy your life,

-true